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Thursday, April 7, 2016

The Importance of a CQL ( Character qualities list)

What you might say what is a CQL? A CQL is a list of character qualities to look for in a future spouse ( as well as you! )    Why is it important? Well imagine you have a recipe and you go to the grocery store without knowing what you need for the recipe.  That is like a girl (or guy) looking for a spouse without knowing what to look for.  Make sense? But be for you go and make a list for a husband make one for your self ! You must prepare yourself sister!
These lists I made I encourage you to make up your own!
CQL for me :
  1. A heart for God 
  2. Humility and submission
  3. Self control , gentleness,  compassion , peace-maker
  4. Heavenly Minded 
  5. Honesty and Integrity
  6. Trustworthy ,and hardworking
  7.  Respect and Honor 
  8. Contentment and satisfaction in all situations
  9. Faith and Righteousness
  10. Discernment, caution ,and carefulness 
  11. Modesty
  12. Selflessness and self sacrifice
  13. Patience and willingness
to name a few

CQL for spouse:(When I wrote down the list for a man I put the first few in importance to me order.)
  1. A heart for God 
  2. Humility
  3. Leadership and Respect
  4. Heavenly minded
  5. Self control , gentleness,  compassion , peace-maker
  6. Honesty and Integrity 
  7. Trust worthy and hard working
  8. Faith and Righteousness
  9.  Discernment, caution ,and carefulness 
  10. Selflessness and self sacrifice 

Go explore the bible and make a list
ox~Hannah